We need a certain amount of stress just to function well during an exam: to attend and respond effectively to the task at hand.
Optimal levels of stress are positively correlated with optimal performance. (This sweet spot will vary across individuals and situations)
Once the stress level exceeds the optimal zone, performance declines. The good news is that we can develop stress habits that help us stay in the optimal performance zone. Not surprisingly, these stress habits have everything to do with how you care for your body, your brain, and your relationships.
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And finally, here are three tips about caring for your relationships.
If you scan your circle of relationships, you will notice that people respond to exam stresses in many different ways. Some people pretend not to care at all – and maybe some people don’t care. Some people will obsess and worry before, during, and after an exam. If you’re not one of those people, stay away from those people.
Here’s what you can do.Here’s why you would do itSurround yourself with people with whom you share authentic, positive energyYou need a safe space to share your doubts, your hopes, and your genuine joy!Stay in touch with people that you trust, people who have your best interest in mind.Practice asking those people for what you need, and then practice the courage to receive from them.Tend and befriend others.As it turns out, we are more complicated than “fight or flight” creatures under conditions of stress. More recent research reveals that oxytocin, sometimes called the “cuddle” hormone, is also released during stress. This is good news. It means that caring for and being cared for by others can make your stress sweet spot even sweeter.
As always, we hope you will come by SAS to talk. We are here to help you discover and expand your optimal stress zone. We are also here to listen and learn. Our goal is to partner with you in saturating our HBS community with sweet spots. Email us at sas@hbs.edu.
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